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Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Great Attitude!

A co-worker of ours sent this email to my mom, she the replied to both him and I with the following respose: "I LOVE IT! Thank you for sharing that! I'm trying to embrace a "good attitude" -- And guess what! I DIDN'T HAVE TO FIX MY HAIR TODAY :)".
The email -
Rebecca,
I saw this joke and thought you would enjoy it. I hope everything is going well for you, our prayers are with you!
Vincent

"Great Attitude"There once was a woman who woke up one morning, looked in the mirror, and noticed she had only three hairs on her head."Well," she said, "I think I'll braid my hair today."So she did and she had a wonderful day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and saw that she had only two hairs on her head."H-m-m, " she said, "I think I'll part my hair down the middle today."So she did and she had a grand day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that she had only one hair on her head."Well," she said, "Today I'm going to wear my hair in a pony tail."So she did and she had a fun, fun day.The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that there wasn't a single hair on her head."YEA!" she exclaimed, "I don't have to fix my hair today!"As is evident, Attitude is everything!Have a Great Day! Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.... Leave the rest to God.

3 comments:

me said...: Hi Aunt Rebecca-
I didn't do my hair today either! (But YIKES, maybe I should have). I am thinking of you- it is 3am and I woke up at 1:30, couldn't sleep so I am now up cleaning and there are no boys to rip anything apart as I clean- so I guess it isn't so bad being up. I figure you are up too with your insomnia. Sure hope not... I hope you are sleeping like a baby... well, an older sleep-through the night kind of baby. love ya, carriebeth; April 16, 2008 at 1:04 AM
NatRat said...: Your blog is a "love-hate" blog...I love coming and learning about everything that is going on...but I hate it because everytime I go it the tears swell up....You are so strong Rebecca and have such a great attitude, and your getting ready status is so low matenence..sp??? I am kind of jealous. And Mark I love your comment that you think she is still "hot" what a good man you are she has so much support from her family...and I think you are super hot too! See you in a couple of weeks at the race! Love ya!; April 18, 2008 at 10:41 AM
Anonymous said...: I received that email also. I thought of those chemo days and how easy it was to get ready!
Thinking of you,
Suzanne; April 27, 2008 at 10:16 PM

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Mom's Testimony 2/27/2008

There are so many people dealing with hardships that often lend to feelings of great unease and lack of peace. I’ve been pondering on how to cope (in a truly positive way) when hardships, and the chaos that seems to follow, invade our lives and override any sense of reason. My niece, Carrie, often reminds me of various scriptures and the parallels they hold to many of our own life situations. I want to bear witness on how I, too, find peace and comfort in the scriptures and particularly, in the experiences of the Brother of Jared (Mahonri Moriancumer, the first Jaredite prophet). The Brother of Jared (as he is referred to) led his people from the “great tower” in Mesopotamia to the Western Hemisphere. In response to his prayer of faith, the Lord did not confound his language or that of his family or friends at the time of the Tower of Babel. This group was then led to a place on the sea they called Moriancumer (hence his ‘last name’) where they dwelt for a few years. But the real story begins for me when the brother of Jared dwelt on the seashore. He apparently stopped praying for guidance (this shows he had weaknesses – not unlike us). He didn't pray for a time and the Lord came to him and chastened him, which caused him to repent and return to favor with God. This is evidence of God’s concern for us (his children) and the importance of daily payer. It speaks loudly to the fact that the Spirit of the Lord will not always strive with man (even a prophet in this case) unless he continues to petition the Lord. Then the Brother of Jared is told there is yet another journey to take and he was commanded to build barges to get to the Promised Land. As he contemplates this task, the Brother of Jared goes to the Lord and asks him how he is going to have air in the barges and the Lord provides a solution. Then the Brother of Jared asks him how he will have light in the barges. The Lord tells him he can't have windows because they will be broken in. So the Brother of Jared, with faith behind his actions, gets to work. He climbs a high mountain and makes small clear stones. He then takes the stones to the Lord. Elder Holland pointed out once that the Brother of Jared didn't even know what to call them but when he was talking with the Lord he just called them "things." Carrie said "Wow...think about that...the Lord asks you to figure out how to have light and you bring him some rocks...yes, rocks –to the God of the Universe who created the Sun, Moon and Stars!" The Brother of Jared really exhibited his faith when he then asked the Lord to touch the stones to illuminate them – knowing that is how they could have light. This should make us all think about our own lives and how we can have light (as in the light of Christ) for ourselves and our family. Not only did these small stones provide light, they were also used as a Urim and Thumim – WOW. Anyway, the Brother of Jared had so much faith he saw the Lord and was able to talk with Him. He was then allowed to see the Lord and was reinherited because of his faith. The part that is so compelling and a true parallel to some of our own difficult situations is when it’s time for the Brother of Jared to take his journey to the Promised Land. They get in their barges and head toward the Promised Land. The winds were ferocious. They were taken to the deep parts of the ocean, virtually swallowed in the sea. There were sea creatures and whales. Now, this was not a mild wind- it was frightening. So this ferocious wind was blowing -- but what direction was it blowing them? Toward the Promised Land! When I am going through my trials I want to always remember this scripture and the significance it holds. And if we’ll liken the Promised Land to the Celestial Kingdom – somewhere we want to go – then we see that these winds blow because the Lord loves us and that is the fastest most effective way to get us 'there'. If the winds were kind and gentle or not at all it’s scary to think where we might end up. The Lord doesn't expect us to journey without light or air either. Just like on the Brother of Jared’s trip there were times they could stop and get air on their journey. I think of those times as our ‘rest stops’ where even if the wind is blowing there is a little calm. It is helpful to remember that light can come from unexpected places. For the Brother of Jared it came from 16 small stones. For me, it often comes from Mark, my kids, and my amazing extended family. It always comes from prayer and scripture study. And as Carrie pointed out, it can come from unexpected places, too, because 'things' testify of Christ and Christ is the source of Light.

It seems that the winds have picked up in my life again; they have become more ferocious. Sometimes I have to really grope for the light - but it is everywhere. When I think of the journey the Brother of Jared took I envison them being tumbled about in the ocean, scared and wondering if it was ever going to 'let up', but I also envision him and the others offering gratitude for the great blessing the source of light was for them. I know I often forget or overlook the 'light' when there are so many other hard things to focus on. I am thankful for the other ‘light’ in my life, my church family, amazing work associates, and many other good people that have crossed our path over the years. Thank you for your friendship. Our bishop, Bishop Richardson, invited our ward family to fast with us this past Sunday; as did many in our family. I want each of you to know that your sacrifice was greatly appreciated. It really is an amazing thing to be buoyed up by the faith and prayers of others. I am grateful for my amazing husband who is my biggest champion; how I love him. I am grateful for our children who offer us the sweetest love and support. Our Heavenly Father loves us and he loves you, he is mindful of each of our own trials and successes. I pray that you and your loved ones are kept safe and secure in the peace of God’s plan (especially if the winds have kicked up in your life again, too). I offer my praise and gratitude to Him. I am a blessed woman, a daughter of a heavenly king and I bear witness of the divinity of our Savior Jesus Christ.

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." -Oliver Wendell Homes

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Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Great Attitude!

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